Life has its ups and downs, well everyone knows that. Seeing the positive in every phase is the only phase to go through life easily, as told by eldders. But let us just be true to ourselves and see inside, if we truly do it or force us to do. Man has a basic instinct of living their comfort zones and also forsee the danger. Due to the factor of danger, we find the safety in cars, homes, jobs, food etc. Well safety in maximum cases stops us to see the real positive and we force ourselves to see the societal positive (this term we'll define later). Every babies first reaction to any kind of hurt is weeping so when you are hurt or have a set back, instead of going through it like a macho person everytime, maybe once in a while sit and weep. The main aim is to let you connect to yourself again, the initial self of yours.
Now societal positive is the safety net of positivity. Take it like a person appreciating your work or behaviour regardless of it is bad or good, we appreciate and let the person know that it is acceptable. A kid if crying the elder is being slapped in a joking manner just to make them laugh or distract. A singer if not forced for correction or daily practice, will eventually achieve average success.
Now societal positive is the safety net of positivity. Take it like a person appreciating your work or behaviour regardless of it is bad or good, we appreciate and let the person know that it is acceptable. A kid if crying the elder is being slapped in a joking manner just to make them laugh or distract. A singer if not forced for correction or daily practice, will eventually achieve average success.
Working your way through the negative and bringing out the positive would be the better way to be positive and not forcing yourself to see positive but never believing or experiencing it.
If any set back comes and you go blank, even forget whether you ate or not, then sit think or weep or go on vacation. just do anything to reconnect deeply. Use the set back as a break with getting all and only positive aspects to work on yourself. And remember you are working on yourself, for yourself and by yourself in your personal life. That doesn't mean that you become self centered or stop giving time to valuable people and hobbies.
Having a set back is great to start as a fresher with a hidden experience, use it well.
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Thank you for reading and enjoy we all have one life :)
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